Is this card able to add gold to a bestow card over its initial limit when it is played, or is the limit listed on the bestow card absolute? The Bestow entry in the rules doesn't seem to say.

If there's no stated limit I would rule that you can add gold above the Bestow initial max count. Also this card works not only on Bestow cards, it will also add 1 gold to a Lannisport Treasury - which is a non-unique location allowing you to have 3 of those at the same time. —
Bestow X means you can place up to X gold on the card after it enters play. It does not mean that X is the maximum of gold the card can have placed on it. So yes, you can use Unbridled Generosity to place gold over what X is. And yes, you can use this card to place gold on cards without Bestow. —

Rules FAQ:

  • Desmera Redwyne’s effect triggers only on effects that explicitly refer to removing a character from a challenge. Any game rules that cause a participating character to be “no longer participating” in the challenge are not considered to “remove” that character from the challenge and will not trigger Desmera’s reaction. (Source)
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Rules FAQ:

  • Whisper Campaign checks whether the character had an intrigue icon at the time it entered play (not when the forced reaction triggers). Shadow Tower Mason will enter play with the icons from its constant ability, and will not be knelt (assuming you meet the requisites). (Source)
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Rules FAQ:

  • If multiple characters are killed simultaneously (e.g. by Valar Morghulis), you cannot trigger Viserys to discard a Bodyguard before your opponent can use it. "Would" interrupts have priority over non-Would interrupts (see The word "Would"), so saves are triggered first, before any "when killed / leaves play" interrupts.
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Rules FAQ:

  • A character cannot have 2 icons of the same type. Multiple instances of the same icon are redundant (see FAQ).
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